Pause and Reflect
Take a moment to reflect and process on the year that has passed and ask yourself:
- What practices were most successful?
- What was challenging?
- What reminded you why you love to teach?
- What are some things you want to leave behind, and some things you want to carry with you into the next school year?
Taking the time to reflect and check-in with ourselves is incredibly important when such big changes are happening. Journaling, walking and talking with a friend, or reaching out and connecting with a therapist at this time of year can be beneficial to help with processing this transition. It gives your body a natural way of closure to allow for something new to begin.
Embracing Therapy as a Reset
Teachers give their time, energy, patience, and guidance to students all year long. This is the time for you to focus on your needs, and a great way to do that is by connecting with a therapist who can provide the support, validation, and space that may have been neglected during the school year.
Over summer break, consider booking a few sessions:
- To process burnout, compassion fatigue, and grief
- To navigate school related stressors
- To learn nervous system regulation tools
- To explore boundaries and work on putting yourself first
- To prepare for what comes next in your personal life or career path
It is a common misconception that you need to be going through a life crisis or have a mental health diagnosis to need therapy, but that could not be farther from the truth. Therapy allows you to connect with someone who can help help you process and transition out of the school year. There is no A+ for doing it all alone, and seeking out help can allow you to destress and enjoy your summer while bettering yourself for the next school year.
Related Resource: Therapy For Teachers
Celebrate the Little Things
Even if the year wasn’t perfect (spoiler: it never is), you showed up every single day. You planned. You adapted. You cared deeply for the academic success and overall well-being of your students. You made a difference each day that you showed up for them, and it should be celebrated!
Give yourself a pat on the back for even the things that seemed small:
- You built trust with a student who didnt trust adults
- You protected your peace and shrugged off things that may have hurt
- You modeled resilience for your students, and created a routine that provided stability in a world full of so many changes
- You asked for help when you needed it
- You facilitated a learning environment that made students feel safe and comfortable
At the bottom line, your students needed you and you showed up for them time and time again in ways that will never show up on a performance review. Now, it is time for you to be there for yourself and celebrate
Let Your Nervous System Catch Up
According to RAND Corporation, 73% of teachers experience job-related stress compared to 35% of working adults. This stress keeps your nervous system in “go” mode, and you have likely been running on caffeine, adrenaline, and sheer willpower for the past 10 months. Just because summer arrives, it does not cause an automatic shut off of your nervous system, it needs time to slowly settle down.
Signs your nervous system is still in survival mode:
- You feel guilty resting or not being productive
- You can’t fall asleep, even when you’re exhausted
- You are experiencing irritability and anxious feelings
- You feel disconnected, unmotivated, or numb
Here’s what you can do to support this softer landing:
- Give yourself some time to decompress without being productive- it’s ok if the laundry piles up a little or the dishes aren’t all done
- Focus on soothing activities rather than overstimulating such as laying at the beach, taking a walk downtown Tampa, or practicing stretches and breathing to connect your body and mind
- Consider mental health support if you feel like you are stuck in overdrive or feeling signs of anxiety
Therapy can be a supportive and powerful place to regulate your nervous system, reconnect with who you are without the “teacher” label, and explore what healing and self-care can look like.
Reconnect With Your “Why”
Once your body has the opportunity to reconnect with itself and become more regulated, you will find yourself becoming more motivated and curious. This is the perfect time to explore your “why”, because sometimes our greatest joys and passions re-emerge when we give them space.
Ways to explore your “why”
- Revisit a favorite education book, podcast, or lecture that inspired you
- Imagine how you want your classroom to look next year, and put a plan in place
- Pursue a passion project
- Investigate trying something new such as a new grade level, education role, or location.
Sometimes, during this reconnection we notice that our “why” is changing- and that is okay too. People are meant to change our minds and build upon what we know because that is what makes us human. With that being said, this is an important step to take during the summer so you are entering a new school year with direction, spirit, and clear goals.
Allow Yourself a Summer That Heals, Not Just a Break
So many teachers enter summer with the mindset of needing a few weeks off to “bounce back”, but that is far from the truth. We are humans, not machines, and we should focus on moving forward not bouncing back.
Let me say it again. You are a whole human. Not a machine. Not a robot. You should treat the summer as a means of building yourself up and moving forward with intention, care, and support.
Here’s your hall pass for break:
- You can say no to plans with others to prioritize yourself
- You are allowed to not think about next year for as long as you need to feel whole again
- You deserve a true break- rest, joy, and support, whether it is from family and friends or a professional.
- Therapy is a long-term investment to your wellbeing, self-respect, and long-term wellness
You have spent the entire year concerned about the wellness of children when they needed you most. Now, it is your turn to focus on you and giving yourself a chance to breathe when you need it most.
Therapists in Tampa Are Here For You
At Gulf Grove Therapy, we provide counseling for anxiety, depression, life transitions, perfectionism, and more. But we also work with people who are simply ready to understand themselves more fully and begin the path to self care and exploration.
Whether you feel like you are in desperate need of help or are simply curious, therapy can support you.
Final Thoughts: Honoring Your Work and Your Worth
You have one of the world’s most important jobs. You help prepare young minds to be successful in all they do by providing support, guidance, and patience as they grow. Now, it’s time for you to allow the same for yourself. This summer, let yourself receive all of the healing opportunities you have available.
Being well is beneficial to your teaching, but it is so much more than that. You are more than an educator. You are a person deserving of joy, wellness, and peace.
Reach out today to schedule a free consultation.
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